Narcissists are known for shifting the blame to other people. They are experts at gaslighting you and convincing you of something they are guilty of doing. Once you understand where their power is coming from, and it is not of this realm, but the demonic, then everything will make sense to you, and you will know that you are not crazy!
These individuals are skilled at talking in circles until the listener has no clear understanding of the original conversation. If the abuser feels guilty about anything, they will start an argument and use such strong talk until the victim is left feeling the guilt the abuser causes.
The victim begins to question their own perception and considers that they may have said something wrong or their tone was too harsh. Finally, after much strong talk from the narcissists, the victim accepts the blame, and as this blame shifting continues, the victim becomes desensitized, and they are left feeling responsible for the entire situation, confused, and hopeless.
The narcissists want you to feel bad for them and manipulate your logic, so you buy into their story. They want you to view the world from their perspective alone, and they want you to do what they do without any consequences freely. Such people have a false reality of everything and demand that you and everyone else agree in everything they say and do because it is part of their dysfunctional and fragmented personality.
Lori B
